71 Spicy Never Have I Ever Questions for Flirty Fun and Bold Confessions

Whether you’re on a date, hosting a game night, or just looking to stir things up, spicy “Never Have I Ever” questions are the perfect way to cross into that steamy, mischievous territory. They’re bold, sometimes ridiculous, and always good for a laugh—or a blush. If you’re ready to flirt, tease, and maybe drop a few secrets, this list is your ultimate cheat sheet.

How to Play the Spicy Version

Each player takes turns saying “Never have I ever…” followed by something they (supposedly) haven’t done. If you’ve done the thing, you take a sip, raise a hand, or confess it outright—your choice. The spicy version leans into romance, daring moments, secret fantasies, and all the blushing in between. Just remember: keep it consensual, fun, and judgment-free. The goal is connection—not discomfort.

71 Spicy Never Have I Ever Questions

1. Never have I ever kissed someone in public just to make someone jealous.
2. Never have I ever sent a steamy text and immediately regretted it.
3. Never have I ever had a secret friends-with-benefits situation.
4. Never have I ever flirted with someone knowing they were taken.
5. Never have I ever skinny dipped with someone.
6. Never have I ever been on a romantic vacation and never left the hotel room.
7. Never have I ever had a crush on a friend’s sibling.
8. Never have I ever sent a spicy pic just for fun.
9. Never have I ever made out in a movie theater.
10. Never have I ever fantasized about someone I shouldn’t have.
11. Never have I ever snuck someone into my room.
12. Never have I ever had a late-night phone call that turned flirty fast.
13. Never have I ever kissed more than one person in 24 hours.
14. Never have I ever gone on a date just for the free food.
15. Never have I ever had a make-out session last more than an hour.
16. Never have I ever been caught doing something I shouldn’t have.
17. Never have I ever teased someone on purpose just to see their reaction.
18. Never have I ever had a crush on a teacher or professor.
19. Never have I ever played strip poker—or anything involving losing clothes.
20. Never have I ever worn someone else’s hoodie just to feel close to them.
21. Never have I ever had a “just one time” thing turn into something more.
22. Never have I ever sent a voice memo that was… not safe for work.
23. Never have I ever hooked up with someone on vacation.
24. Never have I ever kissed someone at a party and instantly forgotten their name.
25. Never have I ever lied about my relationship status to flirt.
26. Never have I ever kissed in the rain just because it felt cinematic.
27. Never have I ever had a secret relationship nobody knew about.
28. Never have I ever had a flirty moment with someone much older.
29. Never have I ever been caught daydreaming about someone at the wrong time.
30. Never have I ever used a dating app just for the attention.
31. Never have I ever re-read a spicy message more than once… or ten times.
32. Never have I ever crushed hard on someone from social media only.
33. Never have I ever stolen a hoodie, hat, or sweatshirt from a crush.
34. Never have I ever been turned on by someone’s voice alone.
35. Never have I ever planned a flirty outfit just for one person to notice.
36. Never have I ever told someone I was thinking about them just to spark something.
37. Never have I ever shared a steamy secret with the wrong person.
38. Never have I ever played “truth or dare” and picked dare just to flirt.
39. Never have I ever been someone’s guilty pleasure.
40. Never have I ever made a move when I probably shouldn’t have.
41. Never have I ever been told I give off “main character energy.”
42. Never have I ever flirted with someone I knew was off-limits.
43. Never have I ever danced for someone in private.
44. Never have I ever stared at someone for too long, hoping they’d notice.
45. Never have I ever had a kiss that felt like a movie scene.
46. Never have I ever snuck out just to be with someone.
47. Never have I ever left someone speechless on purpose.
48. Never have I ever said something flirty just to test the waters.
49. Never have I ever been the reason someone blushed in public.
50. Never have I ever kissed someone in a risky place.
51. Never have I ever made eye contact that turned into something more.
52. Never have I ever worn something on purpose just to drive someone wild.
53. Never have I ever sent a flirty DM I instantly regretted.
54. Never have I ever replayed a romantic moment in my head like a movie.
55. Never have I ever fantasized about someone completely unexpected.
56. Never have I ever stayed up all night texting someone spicy things.
57. Never have I ever said something dirty out loud and shocked even myself.
58. Never have I ever thought “this is dangerous” and did it anyway.
59. Never have I ever whispered something bold just to see the reaction.
60. Never have I ever dropped a flirty line and walked away like nothing happened.
61. Never have I ever had a dream about someone and couldn’t look them in the eye the next day.
62. Never have I ever gotten butterflies over something completely unexpected.
63. Never have I ever played a game that turned flirty real fast.
64. Never have I ever been tempted by someone I shouldn’t have been.
65. Never have I ever taken a risk just to feel alive—and maybe a little naughty.
66. Never have I ever secretly hoped someone would make a move.
67. Never have I ever enjoyed being a little bit mysterious.
68. Never have I ever left someone wondering what I was thinking… on purpose.
69. Never have I ever played a role just to spice things up.
70. Never have I ever teased someone until they finally made a move.
71. Never have I ever sent a text and immediately thought “that was bold.”

Final Thoughts

Spicy “Never Have I Ever” questions are perfect for heating up a slow night or getting closer in a cheeky, daring way. Whether you’re confessing with a smirk or finding out something surprising, just remember to keep things respectful, consensual, and full of fun. After all, a little playful chaos can go a long way in turning sparks into fireworks.